:root{
    --ink:#232A45; --muted:#5C648A; --paper:#FFFFFF; --sheet:#FFFFFF;
    --blue:#7280BD; --blue-ink:#2B3572; --wash:#E1E6F8; --wash2:#F4F6FD;
    --amber:#5A6410; --amber-wash:#DFEEB8; --line:#C1C9E5;
    --rose:#83304A; --rose-wash:#EEB8C4;
    --serif: Charter, Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;
    --sans: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;
    --mono: ui-monospace, Menlo, Consolas, monospace;
  }
  *{box-sizing:border-box}
  body{background:var(--paper);color:var(--ink);font-family:var(--sans);margin:0;line-height:1.6}
  .wrap{max-width:820px;margin:0 auto;padding:0 20px}
  a{color:var(--blue-ink)}
  h1,h2{font-family:var(--serif);line-height:1.18;text-wrap:balance}
  .band{background:var(--wash2);border-bottom:1px solid var(--line)}
  header.site{display:flex;align-items:center;gap:12px;padding:16px 0 14px}
  .wordmark{font-family:var(--serif);font-size:22px;font-weight:700}
  .tagline{font-size:12px;color:var(--muted)}
  .eyebrow{font-size:11px;letter-spacing:.14em;text-transform:uppercase;color:var(--amber);font-weight:600}
  .hero h1{font-size:clamp(28px,5vw,38px);margin:10px 0 12px;max-width:24ch}
  .lede{font-size:17px;color:var(--muted);max-width:60ch}
  section{margin:44px 0}
  h2{font-size:24px;margin:0 0 10px}
  h3{font-family:var(--serif);font-size:19px;margin:22px 0 6px}
  p{max-width:64ch;font-size:15.5px;margin:10px 0}
  .story{border-left:3px solid var(--amber);padding:4px 18px;margin:26px 0;font-family:var(--serif);font-size:17px;max-width:60ch}
  .steps{margin:14px 0}
  .step{display:flex;gap:12px;margin:10px 0;max-width:64ch}
  .step .n{font-family:var(--serif);font-weight:700;color:var(--amber);flex:0 0 auto}
  .step p{margin:0;font-size:15px}
  .honest{border:1.5px solid var(--amber);background:var(--amber-wash);border-radius:8px;padding:14px 18px;max-width:64ch}
  .honest p{font-size:14.5px;margin:6px 0}
  .care{border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:12px;background:var(--sheet);padding:18px 22px;max-width:64ch}
  .care p{font-size:14.5px}
  /* template */
  .tmpl{border:1px solid var(--line);border-radius:12px;background:var(--sheet);padding:8px 18px 20px;margin:20px 0}
  .toolbar{display:flex;flex-wrap:wrap;gap:10px;align-items:center;padding:14px 0 6px}
  .btn{font-family:var(--sans);font-size:14px;font-weight:600;color:#fff;background:var(--blue-ink);border:none;border-radius:8px;padding:9px 16px;cursor:pointer}
  .btn.alt{background:#fff;color:var(--blue-ink);border:1.5px solid var(--blue-ink)}
  .btn:hover{opacity:.92}
  .toolnote{font-size:12.5px;color:var(--muted);max-width:52ch}
  .tblwrap{overflow-x:auto;margin:12px 0}
  table{border-collapse:collapse;width:100%;font-size:13.5px}
  th,td{border:1px solid var(--line);padding:7px 9px;text-align:left;vertical-align:top}
  th{background:var(--wash2);font-family:var(--serif);font-weight:700}
  caption{caption-side:top;text-align:left;font-family:var(--serif);font-size:18px;font-weight:700;padding:14px 0 6px}
  td.d{background:var(--wash2);min-width:96px}
  td.d:focus{outline:2px solid var(--blue);background:#fff}
  .when{color:var(--amber);font-weight:600;white-space:nowrap}
  .w-row td:first-child::before{content:"♀ ";color:var(--rose)}
  .m-row td:first-child::before{content:"♂ ";color:var(--blue-ink)}
  .decade{margin:30px 0 8px;padding-top:10px;border-top:2px solid var(--line)}
  .decade h3{margin:0;font-size:22px;color:var(--blue-ink)}
  .decade .age{font-size:13px;color:var(--muted);text-transform:uppercase;letter-spacing:.08em}
  .newthis{font-size:14px;margin:8px 0 4px}
  .newthis b{color:var(--amber)}
  .mp{border:1.5px solid var(--rose);background:var(--rose-wash);border-radius:10px;padding:16px 20px;margin:22px 0;max-width:66ch}
  .mp h3{margin:0 0 6px;color:var(--rose)}
  .mp p{font-size:14.5px;margin:8px 0}
  .maptbl td:first-child{font-weight:600}
  .due{background:var(--amber-wash);color:var(--amber);font-weight:600;text-align:center;white-space:nowrap}
  .na{color:var(--line);text-align:center}
  footer{border-top:1px solid var(--line);margin-top:60px;padding:22px 0 40px;font-size:12.5px;color:var(--muted)}
  footer .comp{margin-bottom:10px}
  @media print{
    .band,.toolbar,footer .comp,.noprint{display:none!important}
    .tmpl{border:none;padding:0}
    body{background:#fff}
    tr,.mp,.honest{break-inside:avoid}
    a{color:#000;text-decoration:none}
    section{margin:18px 0}
  }

/* Frame — 980px frame, 760px reading column, wide-by-design elements keep the frame (her word, Sep 3, 2026, v3.100). */
.wrap{max-width:980px}
body>.wrap>*,body>main.wrap>*{max-width:760px;margin-left:max(0px,calc((100% - 760px)/2));margin-right:0} /* v3.108: the column's left edge is fixed; blocks narrower than 760 hug it (her word, Sep 4, 2026) */
/* tables were designed wider than the column on this page — they keep the frame (here each table sits in a .tmpl box, so the box breaks out) */
/* v3.106 (Sep 4, 2026): the breakout rule is gone — every layout sits inside the 760 reading column; wide tables scroll inside their wrapper. Her word: "bring the other breakout layouts inside the column too." */